Building Your Child’s Confidence

Confidence is a major determining factor in the choices that we make beginning in childhood and going all the way into adulthood. A confident adult was most likely a confident child just as an adult lacking confidence probably struggled with self-confidence as a child. Raising a child who is confident is necessary for preparing him for a successful adult life.  Here are few tips for building your child’s self-esteem:

First you must believe

Children often learn from nonverbal cues. If you are doubtful or anxious, your child senses this and often feels similar doubt and anxiety. Feel confident about your child’s endeavors and he is likely to feel the same.

Offer encouraging words

Your child needs to know that he is supported and loved unconditionally. He will be more willing to take risks if he knows that you will be there even if he does not succeed.

Avoid Scolding without an explanation

Your child must understand that you do not agree with specific behaviors rather than feeling as though he is the object of your disappointment. Your child will be less willing to try something challenging if they fear that they will disappoint their parents

Reward positive behavior

A little praise goes a long way. Don’t forget to let your child know when he does something that you are proud of.

Encourage extracurricular activities

Repetition builds confidence. Activities such as sports or creative arts help your child learn the rewards of trying hard.

Lead by example

As the saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words.” You are your child’s primary role model. If you approach challenges with confidence, your child is likely to do the same.